Hit the pause button

 I’m Miriam Neff,  and I’m Valerie Neff Hogan, with Wise Women Managing Money

M  Are you in the middle of transitions that rock your bank account and your sense of security?  Here’s  important  advice.  Don’t make any major decisions for awhile. Hit the pause button. Folks quickly marry the wrong person to fill a void,  sell homes, put down payments on a different living space, a car when their minds are muddy with stress and numbness.

V Some changes may be necessary such as relinquishing an expensive leased car.  You may need to get rid of every non vital cost like cable and smart phones.  Those changes are good.  But wait on longer and bigger commitments.  Settle your life, and your emotions.

M Decisions will be better, and  fit the realities of your new life.